What Does the Family Court Do and How Can We Help?

When families face difficult decisions following separation or divorce—particularly about children or finances—it’s not always possible to agree on a way forward. That’s where the family courts come in. They exist to make fair and balanced decisions when private disputes cannot be resolved, especially those that involve the care and wellbeing of children.

At Your Family Time Matters, we understand how overwhelming this process can feel. Whether you’re trying to agree child arrangements, respond to an application, or need help preparing for a hearing, we’re here to offer tailored guidance and practical support every step of the way.

What Is the Role of the Family Court?

Family courts are responsible for making legal decisions in disputes involving family breakdown, including:

• Child arrangements (such as where a child should live or how much time they should spend with each parent)

• Divorce proceedings

• Financial settlements following separation

• Applications to relocate children abroad

• Emergency measures like Prohibited Steps or Specific Issue Orders

The court’s job is to remain impartial. It listens to both sides of the argument and decides on the most appropriate outcome, guided by the welfare of any children involved.

Cases are heard by family judges or magistrates—trained volunteers who operate within the community court system. The court also works alongside professionals like CAFCASS officers, whose role is to advise on children’s welfare.

When and Why Do People Go to Family Court?

There are two main types of cases heard in the family courts:

• Private Law Cases: These typically arise between separating or divorced parents who cannot agree on issues like where a child should live, contact arrangements, education, or travel abroad. Sometimes, other family members (such as grandparents) may be involved.

• Public Law Cases: These are brought by local authorities when there are serious safeguarding concerns about a child’s welfare. Such cases can lead to care orders or even adoption proceedings.

For private law matters, it is often in everyone’s best interest to explore options like mediation or negotiation first. However, if agreement still cannot be reached, the court becomes the necessary next step.

The Family Court Process – What to Expect

Step 1: Mediation and the MIAM

Before applying to court, most people are required to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). This meeting explores whether the issues can be resolved outside of court.

Exemptions apply in situations involving domestic abuse or safeguarding concerns.

Step 2: Making an Application

If mediation is unsuccessful or unsuitable, the next step is to submit a formal court application. This may relate to child arrangements, financial orders, or other family issues.

You’ll need to:

• Complete the relevant court forms

• Pay a court fee (or apply for a fee exemption)

• Submit your application online or by post

While it is possible to do this yourself, many people find it helpful to seek guidance before submitting. Getting things right at the outset can save time, stress, and potentially costs further down the line.

At Your Family Time Matters, we provide support with form completion, help you understand what to expect, and ensure your application is as clear and focused as possible.

Step 3: What Happens Next?

After filing your application, the court will process it and send notice to the other parties involved. The first step in the hearing process is usually the First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA), typically scheduled 4–6 weeks after submission.

You’ll also be contacted by CAFCASS, who may carry out checks and gather information to inform the court about any potential risks or safeguarding concerns.

The First Hearing (FHDRA)

The FHDRA is your opportunity to share your views and, ideally, reach a resolution without the need for a full hearing.

You may be invited (but not required) to prepare a Position Statement—a written summary of your position. This can be very helpful if you're anxious about speaking in court.

During the hearing:

• The judge or magistrate will listen to both sides

• A CAFCASS officer may be present to provide insight on the child’s needs

• The court may propose further mediation or issue a Consent Order if an agreement is reached

If no agreement is reached, the case may proceed to further hearings. You may be asked to file a written statement, provide supporting evidence, or participate in a CAFCASS assessment, where children’s views may be gathered and reported to the court.

How Your Family Time Matters Can Help

The family court process can feel daunting—but you don’t have to face it alone.

At Your Family Time Matters, we offer affordable, fixed-fee support for people navigating private family law disputes. We’re not solicitors, but we provide professional, experienced guidance to help you prepare for court with confidence.

Here’s how we can support you:

• Guidance on MIAMs and whether you may be exempt

• Assistance completing child arrangement or other application forms

• Help preparing your Position Statement

• Practical advice on what to expect at hearings

• Support communicating with CAFCASS or other parties

• Attendance with you at one court hearing (if required)

We work with parents, grandparents, and carers—tailoring our support to meet your needs and help you stay child-focused throughout.

Final Thought

The family court aims to make decisions that serve the best interests of children. While the process can be complex and emotional, with the right support and preparation, it is possible to present your case clearly and constructively.

If you’re facing a family court issue, reach out to Your Family Time Matters. We’re here to guide you with empathy, clarity, and experience.