How to Write a Position Statement for the Family Courts

When you're preparing to attend a family court hearing, especially over child arrangements, one of the most important documents you may need is a position statement.

A position statement is your opportunity to communicate clearly with the court and other parties involved, setting out your views, concerns, and what outcomes you’re seeking.

At Your Family Time Matters, we understand that navigating family court can feel daunting. That’s why we help parents prepare effective position statements that reflect their situation accurately and respectfully.

Writing a Position Statement for the Family Court

This short written summary helps the court understand your views, what has happened so far, and what you're asking the court to decide. It's an opportunity to present your side of the situation clearly, without interruption or legal jargon.

At Your Family Time Matters, we know just how vital this document can be—and how overwhelming it can feel trying to get it right on your own.

What Is a Position Statement?

A position statement is a written summary of your circumstances and what you want the court to consider. It is usually read by the judge before or during your hearing, helping them understand:

• Who you are and your relationship to the child

• The key background facts

• Your concerns or priorities

• The outcomes you're seeking

When Should You Use a Position Statement?

Position statements are typically used at key points in the court process, including:

• First Hearings (FHDRA)

  You can outline what you’re seeking and what concerns (if any) you have.

• Dispute Resolution Appointments (DRA)

  You can reflect on progress, agreements made, and what issues remain.

Why It Matters

Many parents underestimate the value of a well-prepared statement. Done properly, it can highlight your commitment to your child, demonstrate your willingness to cooperate, and clarify what you're hoping to achieve. Done poorly—or not at all—it can leave your case unclear or misunderstood.

The court doesn’t expect a novel, but they do expect something clear, focused, and respectful. Unfortunately, this is where many parents struggle. It's easy to get emotional, go off-topic, or say too little.

Don’t Go It Alone

Writing a strong position statement isn't just about putting words on paper. It’s about understanding what the court is looking for and how best to frame your case in a way that keeps the focus on the child and their welfare.

That’s where Your Family Time Matters comes in. We support parents in preparing effective position statements that reflect their voice, protect their rights, and focus on the child's best interests. Whether you’re writing your first statement or preparing for a final hearing, we can help you get it right.

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